We're pretty practical people. We rarely rush toward the new fads. We purchase things as we need them. And, yes, I said need. Okay, so possibly there is a confusion between needs and wants amongst our family! That's probably what stirs the conversation of celebrating a holiday, like Valentine's Day. This weekend, Jarin and I spent some good time discussing whether or not we should "do anything" for V-Day.
In the past we haven't. We don't give fancy gifts. Not for Valentine's Day or our anniversary. I actually remember when we started dating and requesting that I don't ever receive flowers as an apology, or on Valentine's Day. I didn't want roses because they are marked up to $100 per dozen or because his concious is telling him it's the right thing to do.
But then, as my point went on Saturday, what's wrong with having a reason to celebrate your love on a specific day? Sometimes our lives get so busy running kids to and from basketball, preschool, and daycare, picking up groceries, visiting family, putting in the hours at work, still trying to exercise, keeping up on laundry, scrubbing dishes, and wanting to catch the most recent American Idol clip... that we allow the importance of sending a card, writing a few special words in a love note, eating dinner just the two of you, or lighting a candle, slip to the wayside.
Isn't it quite possible that an anniversary or Valentine's day could be a practical way to force us out of the chaotic lifestyle and into a grateful moment to cherish your partner... even just for one day? I'm not asking for diamonds as a thank-you-for-being-you-gift on Feb 14th. But I do think that we should stop viewing it as an over-rated, commercialized holiday, and more of an opportunity to let those you love know how special they are.
So do your part today. Make sure that before you go to bed tonight, the most special people in your life know how much they mean to you. Can you do it without candy, flowers, or jewlery? I know you can. Prioritze, for just one day, and I guarantee you'll feel better about the idea of Valentine's Day.
Have fun with love today!
Wow - could we be more alike? After reading, rather than write this holiday off as a curse from Hallmark, I may try to do what you say and "celebrate love." Happy Vday Kristi & Jarin!
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